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GAYLYNN'S RECOMMENDED READING LIST
I love to read! I never go into a book store without
buying something.
The following list is not what the bridal salon owner
suggests, instead it is what I suggest as the mother
of two brides and one groom, the aunt of four brides,
the sister of one and a bride myself for 34 years. This
is my personal list.
My selections have been divided into categories to make
it easier. Of course, brides may find all of them helpful
and entertaining. It is my sincere hope that you will
find something which will be perfect for you.
Happy reading!
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for the bride
The best advice I have for brides is to stay focused
on what is most important: you're in LOVE and preparing
to make a life-long commitment to another person. Set
aside time each day for romance and inspiration. After
that, get organized. Good organization is important
for the success of any event.
Finally, have some fun!
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Wedding Blessings:
Prayers and Poems Celebrating Love, Marriage and
Anniversaries
by June Cotner
Beautiful poems, verses and quotes
will remind you that you are in love. Great for
inspiration and ideas to personalize the ceremony. |
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The Knot Guide to Wedding
Vows and Traditions: Readings, Rituals, Music,
Dances and Toasts
by Carley Roney
and the Editors of The Knot
Good general information about weddings.
Fun to read. |
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Chicken Soup for the
Bride's Soul: Stories of Love, Laughter and Commitment
to Last a Lifetime
by Jack Canfield,
Mark Victor Hansen, Maria Nickless and Gina Romanello
Romantic and inspiring. Read this
as a stress-reducer. |
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The Knot Ultimate Wedding
Planner: Worksheets, Checklists, Etiquette, Calendars
and Answers to Frequently Asked Questions
by Carley Roney
Remember; organization is the key
to planning any successful event. Check this one
out. |
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Emily Post's Wedding
Planner
by Peggy Post
A classic authority on everything
wedding. |
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Wedding Planning For
Dummies, Second Edition
by Marcy Blum and
Laura F. Kaiser
I love the Dummies books. They are
great when you really don't know where to start.
We used the Small Businesses for Dummies when
we started The Bridal Collection. |
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The Everything Jewish
Wedding Book: The complete guide to planning the
ceremony and celebration-from traditional to contemporary-for
the most important day of your life
by Helen Latner
Great coverage of both traditional
and modern-day Jewish weddings. |
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Weddings, a Family Affair:
The New Etiquette for Second Marriages and Couples
with Divorced Parents
by Marjorie Engel
This can be a big help for planning
second marriages and dealing with difficult family
situations. |
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The Knot Guide to Destination
Weddings
by Carley Roney
and Joann Gregoli
The number of destination weddings
increases each year. This is a great, comprehensive
guide. Remember to allow enough time to get your
passports ready! |
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Emily Post's Wedding
Etiquette, 5th Edition
by Peggy Post
Peggy Post, Emily's great granddaughter
in law, was in our salon in December 2006 for
a book signing. She says etiquette is simply knowing
what to do to make everyone feel comfortable.
Don't be afraid of "etiquette". This
can be a great help. I recommend any book by the
Emily Post Institution. |
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Wedding Bouquets: Over
300 Designs for Every Bride
by Wedding Magazine
If you love flowers as much as I
do, you will love this. You can never have too
many flowers. |
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Simple Stunning Wedding
Flowers
by Karen Bussen
and William Geddes
Beautiful photos with great ideas.
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The Bride's Guide to
Wedding Music: A Complete Resource
by Hal Leonard
Corporation
I know what I like but I can't remember
the titles. This book will help. |
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How to Set Your Wedding
to Music: The Complete Wedding Music Guide and
Planner (Book & CD)
by Barbara Rothstein
and Gloria Sklerov
From finding a DJ to the actual
music for the ceremony and reception, this book
and CD covers it all. |
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Inviting God to Your
Wedding: and Keeping God in Your Marriage
by Martha Williamson
and Jon Anderson
I've been married for 34 years.
Marriages need God to survive. This is a "must
read" for brides and grooms. |
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Couples' Devotional
Bible
by Marriage Partnership
Remember to stay focused on what
is truly important during this very precious time
in your lives. |
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for the groom
Grooms are much more involved in their weddings and
rightly so! There are a lot of books out there written
just for you.
Talk to your married friends for advice and find a fun
book.
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The Engaged
Groom: You're Getting Married. Read this Book
by Doug Gordon
I thought this one was very witty
and entertaining but also provided valuable information. |
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for the Moms
I've been "the mom" three times. This can
be a wonderful time but beware, the potential for strife
is also there. Keep in mind that your daughter or son
is very nervous and unsure how to do all that is required.
Deciding on a budget in advance of any shopping can
alleviate some of the stress.
Most important: keep your sense of humor and remember
"no one upstages the bride!"
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Emily Post's
Wedding Planner for Moms
by Peggy Post
When Peggy Post (Emily's great granddaughter
in law) was in our salon in December 2006, we
discussed the need for this type of planner. I
told her I would write one someday. I'm sure she
did a much better job than I would have. A must
for "first-time" MOBs and MOGs. Wish
I had had one! |
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It's Her Wedding But
I'll Cry If I Want To: A Survival Guide for the
Mother of the Bride
by Leslie Milk
Funny, Funny, Funny! Check out the
"Mother-Daughter Pre-Nup". Not just
for the MOB; moms of the groom and brides will
love it too. Read this together for a good laugh
and touching moments too. |
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Mother of the Bride:
The Dream, the Reality, the Search for a Perfect
Dress
by Ilene Beckerman
Moms, you have to keep your sense
of humor. This will help - I keep a copy in the
alterations department. |
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for the Bridesmaids and Groomsmen
It is an honor to be part of a wedding. It can also
be expensive and time consuming. Out of your love for
the bride and groom, please be honest when you accept
the position. It is alright to decline and ask for another
way that you can be involved.
If you have accepted, Great! You will have a lot of
fun and make many memories.
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The Bridesmaid
Handbook
by Sharon Naylor
A great reference. The best I've
seen. |
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You Can Wear It Again:
A Celebration of Bridesmaids' Dresses
by Meg Mateo Ilasco
Just for laughs! I think I wore
a dress like one in this book back in the mid
70's. |
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Creative Wedding Showers:
Homemade Invitations, Decorations, Games, Planning
Tips, Menu Ideas and More!
by Laurie Dewberry
Never given a bridal shower before?
This covers it all. |
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The Complete Book of
Wedding Toasts
by John William
McCluskey and Lois E. Frevert
For both sides of the bridal party.
Did you know you would be giving a toast? Don't
worry - you'll be wonderful! |
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The Best Man's Handbook:
A Guy's Guide to the Big Event
by James Grace
This is a big responsibility! Be
prepared and know exactly what you're doing. You'll
impress everyone! |
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for the Flower Girl and Ring Bearer
Couples are very divided about having children at their
weddings. Some can't imagine a wedding without children
and others can't imagine one with them.
These little books make nice gifts. Remember to have
small toys or coloring books and crayons at the reception
as well. It's best to keep them busy.
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The Little
Flower Girl
by Linda Trace
Brandon
For young girls. Very cute illustrations. |
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I'm in the Wedding,
Too: A Complete Guide for Flower Girls and Junior
Bridesmaids
by Caroline Plaisted
For girls over four, with practical
advise as well as encouragement to dream. A very
nice gift. |
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10 Cool Things About
Being a Ring Bearer
by Penelope Colville
Paine and Itoko Maeno
Helps explain to the real young
guys what to except. |
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for your future together
CONGRATULATIONS!
You're married and beginning your life together. As
a bride of 34 wonderful years of married life, I have
a few suggestions:
Wives, always put your husband's best interest first.
Husbands, always put your wife's best interest first.
This usually keeps things balanced. Take good care of
yourselves and each other. Be careful about your health,
watch your finances and nurture your faith. Have babies
and be happy!
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YOU: The
Owner's Manual: An Insider's Guide to the Body
that Will Make You Healthier and Younger
by Michael F. Roizen
and Mehmet Oz
This is Oprah's favorite general
health book. The important thing is to take good
care of each other. |
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Debt Free Living
by Larry Burkett
A Biblical approach to managing
your finances. These principles have worked for
us. |
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1,000 Places to See
Before You Die: A Traveler's Life List
by Patricia Schultz
Make a promise to each other to
always take vacations together, ALONE. My husband
and I made a list from this book of places to
visit. We are having a great time checking them
off! |
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The Girlfriends' Guide
to Pregnancy
by Vicki Iovine
This is the favorite pregnancy book
for all three of my daughters and the only one
recommended by their doctor. Congratulations! |
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Couples' Devotional
Bible
by Marriage Partnership
Keep your marriage and faith strong
- it is the foundation for your children. |
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